FOMO (Fear Of Missing Out) has become a buzz word, but it’s all-too-relevant for most of us. The problem is that FOMO transmutes into spinning in too many directions. Pretty soon we find our time, energy, and creativity drained. If you are subject to the FOMO syndrome, check out JOMO: the Joy Of Missing Out…

On one level our souls enter this life to do hard things. To learn from challenges. To grow capacities and awareness through them…

What happens to us beyond this life? What unfolds, or doesn’t unfold, after we die? It may be that the greatest mystery that confronts us human beings…

There are two forms of emptiness. One is psychological emptiness, and this is more of a problem. The other is spiritual emptiness, and this is full of promise…

The personal spirituality of the Enneagram and our world religions can work in tandem, to help us live more vitally and authentically in the world. I have an upcoming 3-part online course that explores the fascinating ways Enneagram types and world religions overlap and point to a shared goal…

There is a simple practice you can use to wake you up from the typical trance that we commonly inhabit…

A spiritual way of knowing steps out of the either-or box. Beyond the dualist default is a spiritual part of the brain, that takes the either-or and transmutes it into a both-and…

My deepest hope for the people I work with in spiritual direction is this:

that they develop a tried-and-true capacity to call upon higher spiritual guidance, whether in difficult or ordinary times.

What does this look like? Let me illustrate by way of example…

Recently there have been groundbreaking studies on the brain and spiritual experience. In her book, The Awakened Brain, Dr. Lisa Miller shares three key findings on how and why the brain thrives on deep spiritual experiences…

As we work with the Enneagram, we grow our capacity for awareness. One of its most powerful gifts is this…

I’m often asked about what happens in the 4th Way Groups I offer. In this video, I share a brief overview of the the 4th Way Group and what happens in Session #5. The title of this session is: The Journey into Subtle Perception: Sovereignty & Opening to Spirit-World Guidance.

When meeting with a client, I often think about their spirituality as inhabiting a “spiritual location.” Where does your spirituality live right now? On the never-ending spiritual journey, where do you feel most at home these days? I’m often asking myself these same questions. I’ve learned to see our spiritual locations in four categories: dwelling, seeking, practicing, and experiencing…

Nothing lights us up like living spiritually, together. I consider some of my most meaningful professional work to be leading this togetherness practice. This is what inspires what I call Sojourners Institute’s 4th Way Groups.

Spirituality and fun go hand-in-hand. The most enlightened people among us all know this - the true sages, our pets, and our young kids (the kids we ourselves once were). But the rest of us seem to forget, or are sold a stereotype that spirituality is…

The Enneagram guides us on a downward journey that leads to an ascent into our best self, into our wholeness. A key challenge to this journey is…

It’s strange how hard it can be to pay attention. Without concentration, our attention follows random thoughts, appetites, and habits. Without focus, we are sleepwalkers, habit machines, and distraction chasers. In so doing, we detract from powerful forces and feelings within that lead us to wellbeing…

Did you know you are living in a universe that is conspiring for your wellbeing? I believe it’s so. I believe our reality is infused with grace. I believe our world is seeking to make more life out of life, to enable our growth with a fundamental abundance. If you want to join me in this belief, here are 7 ways to optimize your life in a generous universe…

My well-crowded life is like a train that I ride daily. I cover a lot of ground, do so much good work, and it’s true that it usually feels gratifying. But it’s also true that…

Have you ever made mayonnaise? You should. It’s wild. It’s wonderful. Magic happens before your eyes. Funnily enough, this culinary miracle speaks to what it’s like to be on the spiritual journey - growing from our ego into our essence. Don’t believe me that there could be a spirituality of mayo? Let me explain…

Usually the “ego” gets a bad rap. But I have come to believe that ego is more of a doorway than a dead end. And when you walk through the doorway of ego, you enter the realm of holy desire.